I’ve Lost All My Children

“Kinley?! Kinley Jane where are you!?” “Baby! Kinley come here where are you?!” 8 seconds. It happened so fast. Turned to look at something on the shelf. As a parent there is no greater fear. That moment your child vanishes from your care like an unexpected David Blaine trick. I wasn’t laughing. There was no applauding. …

Will The Person Backstage Please Stand Up

You’re trying to get that bundle of joy to sleep through the night. You’re on month 16 with zero ground gained. You’re exhausted and crack from sleep deprivation. Your boss called after hours. Again. That project you thought was due in 3 weeks was due today. You lose a months pay and possibly your job. Married life isn’t what you …

Strike A Pose

*knock knock* From the other side of the bathroom door “Who is it?” “It’s me Chloe. What are you doing?” *silence* “Chloe, what’s going on in there? You’re making all kinds of noise.” “I’m busy! It’s complicated…” *dumbfounded dad moment* “What’s complicated? Do you need help?” *opens door* “I just don’t know which pose looks …

Dear Black Eyed Peas, You Get Me

“People killin’, people dyin’ Children hurt and you hear them cryin’ Can you practice what you preach? Or would you turn the other cheek? Father, Father, Father help us Send some guidance from above ‘Cause people got me, got me questionin’ Where is the love?” – Black Eyed Peas Never in my 35+ years of …

They Watched You Get A Punch To The Face

You may have seen this video where two ladies handled a dispute like total adults (or school-age children). It makes my heart hurt just watching it. Especially when I see the 6-year-old being coaxed by his mother and others in the crowd to hit the other woman. The question that immediately comes to the forefront of …

#adventure over #abandon

Two situations have happened over the last three weeks. I want to bring them to your attention and why it’s important. Hang with me… Situation #1:  Someone came to our church two Sundays ago for the first time. From the email they sent me, they had obviously been around church culture for awhile and considered themselves …